"True Wisdom: Beyond Age and Anger"

By Jeff Arnette      Consider Elihu—a younger man who has been silently observing the heated exchanges between Job and his three friends. Elihu, in his respect for their age, initially refrains from speaking, as he believes it’s fitting to allow his elders the first opportunity to offer their wisdom. His restraint demonstrates a principle deeply embedded in the culture of the time and echoed throughout Scripture: respect for elders and an openness to their experience. However, Elihu’s respect does not imply blind acceptance of everything the elders say. This brings up a crucial balance between honoring those older than us and exercising discernment in what we accept from them.     Respect for elders remains an essential value. In 1 Peter 5:5, we are reminded to show deference to those who are older, as their experiences can offer valuable lessons. Yet Elihu’s approach highlights that age does not inherently confer wisdom or righteousness. In this case, Job’s three friends, despite their years, have failed to bring truth or insight, as they accuse Job without any concrete evidence. Their accusations lack depth and compassion, proving that wisdom is not solely the result of age but also of character and a heart aligned with God’s truth.     Elihu’s response to both Job and his friends is also fueled by righteous anger. He is frustrated with Job’s insistence on absolute innocence and equally disturbed by the baseless accusations of Job’s friends. While anger is often viewed as sinful, Scripture provides a nuanced view. In Ephesians 4:26, Paul advises that we can “be angry and not sin,” indicating that anger can be righteous when it arises from a desire for justice and truth. However, this anger must be controlled, ensuring it does not lead us into sin.     Finally, Elihu’s words remind us that while age can be a source of wisdom, it’s not an infallible guide. True wisdom comes from God, who grants it to all who are open and willing to learn, regardless of their age. As John 14:26 emphasizes, God teaches and guides us through His Spirit, leading us into truth. By remaining humble and teachable, we position ourselves to receive God’s wisdom and guidance, allowing His word to shape us throughout every stage of life.

- Jeff Arnette preaches for the Central Haywood church of Christ, Clyde, NC.  He may be contacted through the congregation's website: https://centralhaywoodcoc.com/