Resolving Church Conflicts

By Brian Mitchell     Upon even a casual observance it is easy to see that the church is the most diverse institution in the world. There are none who are not welcome in the church of our Lord Jesus Christ. It is open to all, who in faithful obedience, come to the Lord. Thus, the church is a collection of all kinds of people which have different backgrounds, different races, different personalities, different educational levels and different values. They also have different levels of spiritual maturity and understanding.     While the diversity of the church is in part that which makes the church the greatest institution in the world, it is also that which ensures that difficulties and conflicts will arise. What do we do when members of the Lord’s church have conflicts and difficulties with one another? The Bible, of course, has much to say on this particular topic and it is that to which we give our attention in this lesson.     The Lord’s plan for His church is perfect. Just because, from time to time, there are problems between those in the church, this does not in any way mean that there is a problem with the church. The Lord’s church and His plans for that church are perfect—We Are Not!!! Raise your hand if: you have never done anything wrong, or you have never said something that hurt or offended another.     The fact of the matter is that we as individual Christians are not perfect, we are in the process of spiritual maturation. There is no such thing as a perfect family, a perfect work environment—and there is no such thing as a perfect local church. The Lord’s blueprint for the local church is perfect, but we as imperfect Christians often do and say things, that lead to less-than-ideal situations.     What causes problems or conflicts within the local church? As individuals we are going to have differences of opinions on a variety of different issues. In matters of doctrine, we must believe and practice the same things. There is no room for opinions in the matter of doctrine, because it is given to us in Scripture—1 Cor.1:10. This is why it is so important that we understand those principles of establishing biblical authority.     There are, however, matters that fall within the realm of opinion and everyone has their own opinions—example, matters of expediency. Regardless, in matters of doctrine—unity, in matters of opinion—liberty and in all things—love. People are different levels of spiritual maturity and knowledge. People have different personalities. People often just misunderstand each other. Sometimes conflicts are caused because people do not do those things which will help us to avoid conflicts in the first place.

- Brian Mitchell serves as a minister with the Jackson Church of Christ in Jackson, MO. He may be contacted through the congregation's website at https://www.jacksonchurchofchrist.net