What to do when you are hurt by another Christian: Pray for Healing and Forgiveness

By Jeff Arnette     Prayer is a powerful tool for addressing hurt caused by fellow believers in the church. It serves as a channel for communication with God, a source of comfort, and a means of seeking healing and forgiveness.     When individuals have been hurt within the church, their first instinct should be to turn to God in prayer. This initial step of reaching out to God in the midst of pain is an act of vulnerability and trust. It reflects a deep desire for God’s presence, guidance, and comfort during a difficult time.     Prayer also plays a crucial role in the process of forgiveness. Forgiveness can be a challenging journey, especially when the hurt is deep and significant. Through prayer, individuals can seek the strength and grace to forgive those who have wronged them. They can ask God for the capacity to release any bitterness, resentment, or anger that may have taken root in their hearts.     Furthermore, prayer extends beyond self-interest to intercession. Believers are encouraged to pray not only for their own healing but also for those who have caused them pain. This act of intercessory prayer is a profound expression of love and Christ-like compassion. It aligns with Jesus’ teaching to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44).     In the process of seeking healing and forgiveness through prayer, individuals can experience a deep sense of connection with God. They can pour out their hearts, express their pain, and find solace in God’s presence. This intimate communion with God brings comfort and peace in the midst of turmoil.     Moreover, prayer serves as a means of releasing burdens and entrusting them to God. It is an act of surrender, allowing individuals to place their hurts, grievances, and concerns into God’s hands. This act of surrender is an acknowledgment that God is ultimately in control and capable of bringing about healing and reconciliation.     In summary, prayer is a vital component of the healing journey for those who have been hurt by fellow believers in the church. It serves as a means of seeking comfort, forgiveness, intercession, and surrender to God’s providential care.

- Jeff Arnette preaches for the Central Haywood church of Christ, Clyde, NC.  He may be contacted through the congregation's website: https://centralhaywoodcoc.com/