By Robert Lambert
An article in the March
2008 issue of Pulpit Helps revealed
that a recent poll conducted by Zogby International
and AOL Personals indicated that 44% of U.S.
residents aged 20-69 years believe that marriage
isn’t necessary to validate love or commitment in a
long-term relationship. Keith Brengle,
director of AOL Personals told Reuters, “Across all
age groups, you just don’t need a marriage
certificate….”
Responding to this outrage,
Jim Mueller, president and co-founder of Growthtrac
Ministries, an organization that produces Christian
marriage resources, said, “A Christian marriage is
between two people who have committed their
lives—and their marriage—to a relationship with
Jesus Christ. That couple is making a
permanent promise, a covenant that is not meant to
be broken. That makes a difference.” Mr.
Mueller believes that many of the negative values
reflected in the media, celebrity lifestyles and
culture have led many young adults in their 20s to
adopt a light view of commitment in marriage and
cohabitation before marriage.
I used to think that this
was symptomatic of the lax morals of this
country. Now, I believe that the laxity of
morals in this country IS the problem, not just a
symptom. Could it be that we are in the same
situation that Paul faced in his day. Read the
following passages and see if anything sounds
familiar: “But understand this, that in the last
days there will come times of difficulty (perilous
times—KJV). For people will be lovers of self,
lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive,
disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy,
heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without
self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous,
reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure
rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of
godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such
people…. And since they did not see fit to
acknowledge God, God gave them up to a based mind to
do what ought not to be done. They were filled
with all manner of unrighteousness, evil,
covetousness, malice. They are full of envy,
murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They
are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent,
haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to
parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless.
Though they know God’s decree that those who
practice such things deserve to die, they not only
do them but give approval to those who practice
them” (2 Timothy 3:1-5; Romans 1:28-32).
Again, how familiar does
this sound? Is this not the state of our nation,
even our world? Make a quick perusal of any national
newspaper and find articles that describe situations
relating to each one of the sins mentioned in these
two passages. It gives you pause to wonder
just what God will do about it. It is a
remarkable fact of history that God has never let
His people move too far into debauchery without
doing something to remind them of His
presence. At times, His actions have been
terrifying (e.g. serpents in the camp, the captivity
of Israel and Judah , etc.). It sees that God
will do one of two things if we do not repent and
return to His ways. First, He can discipline
us through His providence. Hebrews 12:6 tells
us that the Lord will discipline those whom He
loves. This will be in an effort to pull us
away from Satan’s influence. Surely the
prodigal son found himself being chastened by the
Lord’s love. Second, God could do as Paul
describes in Romans 1:28-32, and give us up.
The text indicates that they had put God to the test
and decided that He was not the kind of God they
desired. Likewise, God put them to the test
and found that they were not the type of people He
desired. Just imagine, God giving us up! I
cannot read the mind of God save what He has put of
His mind in His word, and based on what I read and
see happening today, I fear that God may be on the
verge of giving us up. Perilous times indeed
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Robert Lambert; via THE SOWER, a weekly publication of
the Arthur Church of Christ, Arthur, IL. Ron
Bartanen, who serves as minister and editor, may be
contacted through the congregation's website:
http://www.arthurchurchofchrist.com